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IF A MAN WANTS YOU (Author Unknow)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away; if he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. 
 
If a man is into you, nothing will keep him from seeing you or contacting you. 
 
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.  
 
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 
 
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. 
 
Slower is better. 
 
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. 
 
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. 
 
Do not settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. 
 
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. 
 
The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 
 
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women – there is no respect. 
 
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. 
 
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. 
Never let a man know everything. He may use it against you later. 
 
You can not change a man’s behavior; change comes from within. 
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or has a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god, he is a man, nothing more nothing less. 
 
Never let a man define who you are. 
 
And NEVER borrow someone else’s man. 
 
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you! 
 
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. 
 
All men are NOT dogs. 
 
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street. 
 
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. 
 
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary. 
 
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. 
 
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted. 
 
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. 
 
Share this with other ladies, you’ll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARED.

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You Asked For It and Here It Is!

I am very pleased to announce that A Matter of Destiny: How to find and Marry Your Soulmate is now available in audio format.

A Matter of Destiny, can be listened to on your personal computer and/or MP3 player though retailers such as BuyBooksOnTheWeb.com and Amazon.com for the CD version, and will soon be available at Audible.com and Apple’s iTunes Store for the downloadable version.

I am excited about this audio book. Dave Giorgio (producer) and Maria D’alleva (voice over) at Spoken Books Publishing did a great job! Hope you all like it!

The purpose of this blog is to share my works and my passions with you and maybe even start up some discussions about topics that are important to me. I have no idea where this will lead, but I know I am excited to get started. More to come…