TRUE LOVE IS THE LOVE YOU SHARE WITH YOUR SOULMATE” check out my website www.amatterofdestiny.com for more….

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For all the single ladies: The following article/poem titled “If A Man Wants You” was passed along to me by a dear friend. I hope you enjoy the article and benefit from it. Let me know what you think!

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IF A MAN WANTS YOU (Author Unknow)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away; if he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. 
 
If a man is into you, nothing will keep him from seeing you or contacting you. 
 
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.  
 
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. 
 
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. 
 
Slower is better. 
 
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. 
 
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. 
 
Do not settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. 
 
Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. 
 
The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 
 
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women – there is no respect. 
 
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. 
 
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. 
Never let a man know everything. He may use it against you later. 
 
You can not change a man’s behavior; change comes from within. 
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are…even if he has more education or has a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god, he is a man, nothing more nothing less. 
 
Never let a man define who you are. 
 
And NEVER borrow someone else’s man. 
 
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you! 
 
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. 
 
All men are NOT dogs. 
 
You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street. 
 
You need time to heal between relationships…there is nothing cute about baggage…deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. 
 
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary. 
 
Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. 
 
Make him miss you sometimes…when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. 
 
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. 
 
Share this with other ladies, you’ll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARED.

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New book due to be released September, 2009 titled: The Six Rules for Marriage: Practical Advice for Divorce-Proofing Your Marriage. Look for it soon…

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Due to popular demand A Matter of Destiny: How to Find and Marry Your Soulmate is now available via instand download (ebook). Here is a link to the download page: A Matter of Destiny: E-book.

Downloadable books really are the best option - no postage fees and instand access.

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I’m happy to report that Father Power is still being received well. Here is a link to the press release published earlier this month from PRLOG.org.

http://www.prlog.org/10199646-the-importance-of-fathers-in-their-childrens-lives-today-cannot-be-denied.html

Thanks to everyone, for the feed back and reviews of my recently released book FATHER POWER. I truly appreciate you taking the time.

I am very happy to report that this little book has been received well. Thank you all for your support.

For those of you that have not read this book:

Father Power is a celebration of the important role fathers play in their children’s lives. It is my desire through this little book to help Fathers discover what makes a great dad and spouse/partner and to show them just how needed and powerful they really are in their children’s lives.

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Father Power: How Dads Shape Their Children’s Life is now ready for purchase exclusively through Amazon.com.  This sixth booklet in the WiseAdviceBook Series is about the importance of fathers in their childrens lives.

Father Power will not only guide fathers in becoming better parents but just as important - it will also guide them in becoming great husbands/partners to their children’s mother. All fathers and father figures stand to benefit from this little book.

I hope that you all enjoy reading it. I welcome your feedback and comments.

To all of you, a merry and blessed Christmas and a happy and healthy New Year!

Love and Blessings,

Joanne B. Parrotta

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Why Isn’t It Perfect? This is a question I get asked often from singles who have found their soulmate. I will try to answer this question as best as I can.
Being with your loving soulmate will (at least most of the time) feel wonderful and you will undoubtedly experience many moments of bliss. But does this mean you and your partner will never argue and that you will always be deliriously happy? No, of course not!

Just as you and I are not perfect, your soulmate isn’t either. But while you can clearly see his or her faults, your love for each other will be enough to overcome most obstacles. Even soulmate relationships need work and relationship skills from both partners. Remember that you have come together again to love each other and to continue to learn and grow. Keep the lines of communication open, respect each other’s space and individuality, and work to keep the magic alive. Check out an article I wrote recently that will answer this question in more detail entitled Why the Fascination With Soulmates?

Best wishes,

Joanne B. Parrotta